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Preparing for a Toddler Portrait Session: A Photographer's Guide for Parents

Updated: Jul 17, 2024

As a photographer, one of my primary goals is to capture beautiful, authentic moments. To achieve this, the cooperation and preparation of parents and their children are crucial. Here's how parents can help set the stage for a successful portrait session, including tips for managing the "Terrible Twos".



Setting Expectations for Parents


1. Communicate Your Vision: Before the

session, I’ll discuss the vision and goals with you. We’ll talk about the style, setting, and any specific shots you want. Your input is invaluable, and understanding your expectations helps ensure we’re all on the same page.


2. Session Duration: Typically, a portrait session lasts 1-2 hours. This allows ample time for multiple shots and outfit changes, without feeling rushed. Patience is key, especially with younger children.


3. Be Prepared for Breaks: Children, especially toddlers, have short attention spans. Be ready to take breaks as needed for breathers, and be sure to bring snacks, drinks, and their favorite distractions.


4. Positive Attitude: Your mood sets the tone. A positive, relaxed attitude can help your child feel more at ease. Children are incredibly perceptive and can pick up on stress or frustration.



Preparing Your Child


1. Schedule Wisely: Choose a time when your child is typically happiest. After a nap or a meal is often a good idea. Avoid scheduling the session during their usual nap time or when they might be hungry.


2. Comfortable Clothing: Dress your child in comfortable clothes. If you plan for outfit changes, ensure the clothes are easy to change into and out of. Avoid anything too tight or itchy.


3. Bring Essentials: Pack a bag with essentials—favorite toys, snacks, a change of clothes, and any comfort items like a blanket or stuffed animal. These can be great for soothing your child or even incorporating into the shoot.




Mitigating the "Terrible Twos"

1. Flexibility is Key: At this age, children can be unpredictable. Be flexible and patient. If your child isn’t cooperating, we can switch up the plan or take a break.


2. Engage, Don’t Force: Rather than trying to force a pose, let your child play and interact naturally. Some of the best shots come from candid moments.


3. Bring a Helper: If possible, bring along an extra set of hands. A familiar face who can entertain or distract your child can be very helpful.


4. Incorporate Play: Make the session fun! I often use games, songs, or silly faces to get genuine smiles and laughter. Your involvement in play can also help your child feel more comfortable.


5. Patience and Praise: Encourage your child with praise and patience. Positive reinforcement can go a long way in keeping them cooperative and happy.




Parents' Involvement


1. Active Participation: Your involvement is crucial. Be ready to engage with your child, whether it’s making them laugh or providing comfort.


2. Stay Calm and Supportive: If your child becomes fussy, stay calm. A supportive and relaxed demeanor can help soothe them more quickly.


3. Trust the Photographer: Trust in my experience and process. Sometimes what seems like a chaotic moment can result in a beautiful, candid photo.



By preparing ahead and knowing what to expect, we can work together to create a portrait session that is enjoyable for everyone involved. Remember, the goal is to capture the true essence of your child and family, and with your support, we can achieve stunning results.


Book your session today!


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